Child: Reenie, 2 yrs
Expectations of motherhood: I’m not sure I really knew what to expect. I was too busy worrying about the birth and avoiding episodes of one born every minute! We had waited a long time for Reenie and had miraculously conceived after 2nd round IVF. It took a long time for me to relax and settle into pregnancy but I was fortunate enough to finish work a couple of months before the birth so I fully embraced yoga and as much me time as possible (alongside renovating an entire house!)
Reality of motherhood: The first month the heating hummed on constant and I was in a massive baby bubble. Nothing else mattered as we got to grips with breast-feeding and figuring out how best to get at least 4/5 hours sleep. Reenie is now a non-stop little ball of energy, its amazing to watch her discover new things everyday but also very tiring trying to keep her entertained and I now realise why a lot of woman say they go back to work for a break!
Taking our child home for first time: As much as I felt prepared for the sleepless nights/nappy changing and feeding worries it was more the realisation that a little human being now depends on me entirely to survive. That first month was a bubble of tea and toast in bed at very random hours, lovely baby presents and flowers dotted around house and planning a quick route home whenever we left the house!
The best and worst advice: I struggled with breast-feeding and found it very painful initially. I raced to my local breast-feeding counselling session at the local library when Reenie was 5 days old and met the most wonderful, down to earth midwife who had a queue of teary, new mums. Getting my knockers out in a public library wasn’t something I had envisaged! I remember feeling confused about a lot of contradictory advice from professionals. I realised pretty early on to listen to all advice but it was more about what worked for us as a family.
Hardest part of being a mother: The lack of me time and the realisation that holidays will never be the same again!
Best part of being a mother: Seeing Reenie change everyday, the times where we all laugh so hard at the silliest things and that over whelming sensation of love I feel for her when she falls asleep in my arms in front of the telly.
Has being a mother changed me? I now find myself crying at pretty much everything on the television, I need a whole box of kleenex to get through 24 hours in A&E!
I put my family on a bit of a backfoot as I climbed the career ladder in London but now my family is more important to me than ever and watching Gran’s relationship with Reenie is very special.
Hopes for your family: That we will continue to be healthy and happy and always make the time to be very silly!
Advice for new and expectant mums: Take all advice on board but ultimately follow your own instincts, its tough at times so don’t forget to be kind to yourself too!
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